Thursday, September 12, 2019

Beginner's Pluck

For the last several years, a staple in my growth has been the Global Leadership Summit.  It takes place every August and gathers leaders from all over the world that focus on becoming better.  I've attended a satellite location in the Twin Cities and use it conclude my summer and jump start the next year.  I gather my reading list and find incredible leaders to follow through blogs, podcasts and other outlets.

Liz Bohannon is the co-founder and owner of Sseko Design and a rising star in the leadership world.  Her indelible talk at the GLS this year impacted many.  Instead of a mic drop, she literally flew off the stage while borrowing a quote from the movie Mighty Ducks to conclude her talk.  It was awesome.  She was quite spirited and determined, which is the definition of the word she based her book on: Beginner's Pluck.

Bohannon released the book at the Summit, so I purchased two copies and have made the recommendation to several people.  Unfortunately, the book is not officially available until October 1st, but you can pre-order it on Amazon or Barnes & Noble.  And I recommend that you do right away.  Believe it or not, she's actually passing through Minneapolis on her book tour (October 23).

I took a few pages of notes during her talk and have re-watched it a few times on the GLS app.  It's that good.  Here is a fancy sketch of some key points from the GLS website:


What resonated most with me personally was the idea that people don't you to be their hero; they need you to help them to be the hero in their own story.

I'd enjoy hearing from others their thoughts on Beginner's Pluck and the work that Liz Bohannon is doing.  She's a difference maker, that's for sure.


*Pluck (n.) - spirited and determined courage.

Wednesday, September 11, 2019

Where were you?

"Where were you when the world stopped turning on that September Day?"

I was a fourth year college student at the University of Wisconsin-Madison on September 11, 2001.  My Tuesday mornings that semester were set-up to include a morning workout followed by a history class discussion group.  I had done a workout in the weight room and finished with some stretching and sweating in the sauna.  My brother swung the sauna door open and told me that a plane had just crashed into the World Trade Center in New York.  I shrugged it off because, in my mind, I had envisioned a small plane bouncing off the side of the building.  I didn't consider anything else.  Why would I?  Moments later, WIBA radio made the same announcement.  If it was on the radio, what Tony told me might have been a big deal, so I took a shower and went to the wrestling offices to watch CNN with a few others before my discussion group started.  By the time I had gotten to a TV, the second plane had hit the South Tower and it was clear that these weren't accidents.

My class was scheduled for 9:55 AM (CST), so I stood and intently watched the coverage for the next 40 minutes that would change all of our lives forever.  The footage focused on the Twin Towers and smoke bellowed out of them.  Soon a report of another plane at the Pentagon was being reported and then to our surprise, and everyone else's across the world, the South Tower collapsed in a horrific heap.  We were all shocked.  I remember our secretary screaming when the tower fell and as we watched for what only seemed like a few minutes, they were saying another high jacked plane went down in Pennsylvania.  It was at that time that we began to comprehended that our nation was under attack.  Roughly 20 minutes after the South Tower collapsed, the North Tower fell.  It was unbelievable.  We were all stunned.  In just over an hour, hysteria broke out and our country was forever changed.

I went to class as scheduled.  It was a discussion group for the History of the Crusades from the Islamic Perspective.  The T.A. who ran the discussion was from Long Island.  Everyone showed up to class because things were still so fresh.  We all knew what jihad meant.  Our T.A. said there would be no discussion and we all shared what we had seen and heard.  Everyone was unsure of how to respond, but I remember the T.A. being scared because he hadn't heard from any of his family members.  Another student from NY said his parents worked next to the World Trade Center and he didn't know if they were safe, either.  There are a lot of people from the East Coast at UW-Madison and we quickly learned that cell phone service wasn't working and many were left waiting to hear from loved ones.

The rest of the semester, the professor of the class was called to offer a non-Western point-of-view on many new topics that were fresh in the media, especially jihad.  He traveled to Washington, New York and other places to speak about the attack and answer questions.  We had several weekly lectures canceled because he was being interviewed on CNN, MSNBC, etc.

Growing up, I remember adults telling me they knew exactly where they were when they heard of the assassination of JFK.  For an entire generation, that was a defining moment in their lives.  September 11, 2001 became a significant defining moment for those who were old enough to gather the news.  They'll always remember exactly where they were when they heard.

It doesn't seem like 18 years have passed.  My memory of the events from that day are still very vivid.  We were all challenged to "Never Forget."  And I haven't.

Where were you when the world stopped turning on that September Day?

Tuesday, September 10, 2019

The Watershed

Our Pastor shared a great story on Sunday that drove home a point and also forced me to think about how the "watershed" can affect our lives as athletes and coaches.  He explained that at the continental divide, water sheds one of two directions and either ends up in the Atlantic Ocean or the Pacific Ocean.  A simple understanding with big time implications for our decisions.

It's similar to the principle of the path: your destination is determined by your path.

I reiterated Pastor's analogy with some athletes later that day as they were beginning a version of preseason training (strength/conditioning and open mat practices).  I encouraged them to make their first day a "watershed moment," understanding that they're going in one of two directions.  In our case, it's either towards our goals or away from them.  The journey and process might not be predetermined, but the final destination is.  The water might meander a bit or get dammed up somewhere or even fall off a cliff in a waterfall.  But the ultimate destination is assured by one means or another.

What goals do you have as an athlete?  As an individual?  Are the decisions your making moving you towards those goals or away from them?  

It's really incredible that we would actually be sincere about making goals, but still choose to go in a direction that moves us further from that destination, isn't it?  Yet, it's so common.  Pursuing your goals and chasing your dreams requires daily active participation.  You must be intentional about what you're doing day in and day out.  Everyday is a watershed moment.

I've been to the "watershed" at Berthoud Pass just West of Denver.  In fact, it was the only route to Fraser, CO where one of my best friends resided.  The Continental Divide is fascinating.  Berthoud Pass is over 11,000 feet above sea level and full of switchbacks on both sides of the pass.  Using that route is always at the mercy of Mother Nature.  I remember feeling very small standing next to the sign that identified the geographical marking of the Continental Divide.  The snow that sat there was about to go in one of two directions in a moments notice (well, when it actually melted).

The watershed starts at one location and travels thousands of miles to the final destination.  Applying that to our goals, it's crystal clear that we MUST start in the right direction.  We must head towards our hopes and dreams otherwise we just won't get to where we want to go.

If you're daring enough to set some big goals, it's important that you make the correct first steps in the direction towards them.  The first step is the watershed moment.  Once you create the momentum, trust the process...but keep moving because tomorrow will surely bring to you another watershed moment and you must chose which side of the divide you're going to go.


Monday, September 9, 2019

Inside the Mind of a Master Procrastinator

One of my athletes shared this video with me.  It took me a few days to get to it, however, I'm glad I finally watched it because it helped understand a few things about the way I approach projects and sometimes life in general.

I'm committed to this 30-day blogging project and will enjoy the next few weeks.  The last couple of nights I've pushed my writing start time to after 10:30 pm...watch the video and you'll understand.  I blame the monkeys.



Sunday, September 8, 2019

Sunday Soup Day

A family tradition that we started 7 years ago takes place every Sunday during the (NFL) football season.  We simply call it "Sunday Soup Day."  A long time ago, I had a very amateur cooking blog.  I made corny videos and shared recipes.  Then our kids became very picky eaters and now our cuisine is less than best.  I love cooking, though.  When we started having children, we decided that we had to try to create some of our very own traditions in order to make memories and Sunday Soup Day has stuck.

This week was the first Sunday Soup Day of the season.  We'll experiment with different soups through the first part of February.  Given the clientele in our household, I'm guessing I'll be making classic chicken noodle two out of three weekends.

Over 7 years, many of our friends and family members have been a part of Sunday Soup Day and it has created a lot of great memories.

Bonus points to anyone who can dig up my old cooking blog and pull some great soup recipes to try.

What are some of your special, yet very simple, family traditions?

Saturday, September 7, 2019

YouTube TV

An extensive and exhausting conversation in our house over the last 13 years has been about DirecTV.  In college, a bunch of roommates and myself went all in on the most expensive television programming package, including all of the movie channels, NFL Sunday Ticket and other add-ons including a cartoon station that ran a Tom and Jerry marathon.  College students always do strange things.  Don't judge.  I have been a devoted customer ever since.

Despite the outrageous cost, I chose DirecTV because of the live sports options.  A REAL sports fan doesn't record or DVR sports.  End of discussion.  I'm committed to watching the Packers live and will NEVER choose to watch them in delayed fashion.  I wouldn't be able to pull that off anyways as I follow along on Twitter and other social media outlets.  I also enjoy watching many other sports and they need be viewed in real time.  The Packers are available on network television most of the time, so a big TV package isn't necessary for that alone.  Add to that FSN, BTN, ESPN, NFL Network and others and there haven't been many options.

Well, I'm happy to say that as of this week I'm no longer a DirecTV customer and I'm a satisfied sports fan.  I welcomed the NFL Sunday Ticket into my home in 1999 and this football season I'm not entertaining that option (I can borrow my brothers on the app).  The streaming options had been toying with sports, but have balked at the regularly scheduled live options, but MLB forced me to watch YouTube this year when it was the only option for a Twins-Brewers game.  And it worked...on my computer.  I did a little research and with help from a neighbor, I understood that YouTube TV gave me everything that I desired in DirecTV for almost $100 less per month.  Yes, that's two zeros...$100.  I just needed a Smart TV or a Roku so I didn't have to plug into my phone or iPad.

I had to take down our dish to complete an addition on our house and to put it back on the roof was going to require a two-week wait on a technician.  So, the timing was right to try the YouTube TV 5-day trial because I didn't want to miss any Twins games.  They're in the hunt right now.

This week I watched the Packers live on my TV (the Bears still suck), caught some college football and watched a lot of baseball.  All in real time on my TV through our Roku.  We also get to watch our favorite TV shows.  The only downside is the guide and navigating has been a bit of a learning curve and I've concluded it's not going to be as easy as DirecTV.  However, I can watch "cable tv" anywhere, including on my phone.  That's both good and bad.  I did pull up the Twins game to watch a bases loaded at bat when we were on a family walk tonight.  That was cool.  I just hope I'm not distracted by that possibility everywhere I go.  But I can say I don't mind being able to watch House Hunters while waiting to pick-up the boys.  I can also add other family members to my account, so my in-laws get cable for the first time in over 30 years.

So far, so good.  I've been very skeptical of the online TV stuff because it's missed on some important factors (for me).  Netflix, Hulu, Amazon Prime, etc. are fun and we've watched plenty of shows with those subscriptions.  Those alone couldn't meet the demands of sports fan, though.  I think YouTube TV finally bridged the gap.  And our checking account is very pleased (so is my wife!).

Friday, September 6, 2019

The Brown Jug Returns to River Falls

Our community came together tonight for a much anticipated match-up under the Friday Night Lights.  River Falls battled long-time rival Hudson in their first Big Rivers Conference game of the season.  Both had a blemish on their record to a common opponent, so many expected it to be a toss-up.  This game is a significant one every year because the two play for a traveling trophy known as the The Little Brown Jug.  It had been a decade since that ceramic jug had taken rest in the trophy case at RFHS.

The parking lot was completely full.  People parked on the university's grass and the streets nearby were full of cars.  There were more people in Dave Smith stadium than I've ever seen for a sporting event at Ramer Field.  I recall a time in the early 90's when the Vikings and Chiefs scrimmaged each other and there were people all over the grounds.  Tonight was even more impressive than that.

There was also plenty of excitement during game time.  The student sections of both teams cheered loudly and were dressed in a chosen theme (RF: whiteout, Hudson: camo).  There was even a little back-and-forth banter.

It was a close game in the first half, however, the Wildcats came back in the second half and had 3 big interceptions and 4 touchdowns for the victory.  Not only did the Wildcats reclaim the jug, they shook the proverbial monkey off the backs of the coaching staff and others within the district.

Coaches and teachers in our district cannot say enough about how fun the culture has become at RFHS with a competitive and thriving football team.  It drives the culture in other sports the entire season.  It also brings our community together in a very important way.  Friday night was a good as it gets for students in high school (and younger).